Friday, June 9, 2017

WHAT IS SIN?

          Everyone has done it. Everyone is still susceptible to it. Everyone is surrounded by it. Sin is in the world. If you knew what sin is, could you avoid it? What actually is sin?
          The easy definition of sin is "Anything that separates you from God." A better question might be, "What separates me from God?"
          The devil is a separator whose goal is to bring you to hell.  He's a deceiver who's best described as a thief, a killer and a destroyer. He's the poster-child for hate and the opposite of love. The devil and sin go together like cake and ice cream.
          Sin begins as the seed of selfishness. We put our own desires ahead of our relationship with God and other people. The Bible says we are to "love God and love our neighbor as our self."
          In the following two selections from The Message Bible, you will find a good definition of what sin looks like and then a beautiful glimpse into what love is supposed to look like.

This Is How Sin Behaves

"It is obvious what kind of life develops out of trying to get your own way all the time: repetitive, loveless, cheap sex;
a stinking accumulation of mental and emotional garbage;
frenzied and joyless grabs for happiness;
trinket gods;
magic-show religion;
paranoid loneliness;
cutthroat competition;
all-consuming-yet-never-satisfied wants;
a brutal temper;
an impotence to love or be loved;
divided homes and divided lives;
small-minded and lopsided pursuits;
the vicious habit of depersonalizing everyone into a rival;
uncontrolled and uncontrollable addictions;
ugly parodies of community.
I could go on. This isn’t the first time I have warned you, you know.
If you use your freedom this way, you will not inherit God’s kingdom."
Galatians 5:19-21 The Message

This Is How Love Behaves

Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.
Love doesn’t strut,
Doesn’t have a swelled head,
Doesn’t force itself on others,
Isn’t always “me first,”
Doesn’t fly off the handle,
Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn’t revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.

Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled.

When I was an infant at my mother’s breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good.

We don’t yet see things clearly. We’re squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won’t be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We’ll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!

But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love.
1 Corinthians 13:4-13 The Message


Thanks for your time. Go do something nice for somebody.
Jesus loves you and so do we.

     Bob Kuebler is the Director of Youth With A Purpose. Bob has spent the last 15 yrs. learning about pain and perseverance from inner city young people and their families. Healing starts with love and encompasses compassion and empathy.
     Our mission at YWAP is to inspire inner-city young people to develop as God's leaders who overcome the mindset of poverty and gang violence and mentor the next generation. Bob is the Author of six books, several magazine articles and blogs including The Bright Spot Report. He regularly shares with audiences about how God is redeeming our cities through young people.

Bob can be reached at 716-830-8240 or ywapbuffalo@yahoo.com.
www.youthwithapurpose.org
 
 

Wednesday, June 7, 2017

TWO THINGS I WANT TO DO WITH MY LIFE

          My "bucket list" of life goals is more like a coffee cup. Sure, I'd like to finish climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro, finish hiking all 50 United States high points (32 so far,) and accomplish a few other things. But they all pale in comparison to what's really in my heart.

          Two things overwhelm all the other thoughts that take up space in my life.
1. "I want to tell as many young men as I can,
how much God loves them."
2. "I want to tell as many young men as I can,
how cool it is to be a dad."
          Everything else flows into my bucket list from those two things. Knowing the love of God will tell a young man how to love and respect a woman. I want my relationship with my wife to be a model of a man loving his wife the way Christ loved the church.
          God's love provides a road map for a young man's purpose in life. It's a game plan for greatness in demonstrating a more excellent way to live. God is an all-loving, all-forgiving Father who allowed his son to demonstrate how to lay your life down.
          I love being a Dad, though I never claim to have the role perfected. To remain teachable is a life-long pursuit. I want to learn more about God's love. I want to learn more about being a better dad. I want to learn more about how to do two things.

Thanks for your time. Go do something nice for somebody.
Jesus loves you and so do we.

     Bob Kuebler is the Director of Youth With A Purpose. Bob has spent the last 15 yrs. learning about pain and perseverance from inner city young people and their families. Healing starts with love and encompasses compassion and empathy.
     Our mission at YWAP is to inspire inner-city young people to develop as God's leaders who overcome the mindset of poverty and gang violence and mentor the next generation. Bob is the Author of six books, several magazine articles and blogs including The Bright Spot Report. He regularly shares with audiences about how God is redeeming our cities through young people.

Bob can be reached at 716-830-8240 or ywapbuffalo@yahoo.com.
www.youthwithapurpose.org

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Monday, May 8, 2017

ARE THERE ENOUGH MEN WHO CRY IN BUFFALO?

Bibles surround a street side memorial for a murdered young man.

Who are the men who cry in Buffalo, New York? 

  • Some men are in jail crying to get out.
  • Fathers who don't know their children, cry for lost years.
  • Fathers of dead boys cry over son's in caskets.
  • Men whose brains are fried from drugs cry for sanity.
  • Men live under bridges cry for some coin to buy a drink.
  • Wounded men cry for revenge.
  • Senile men cry for lost memories.
  • Divorced men cry over their loneliness.
  • Diseased men in pain cry out for a cure.
  • Guilty men cry over lost innocence.
  • Young men cry out for a father figure.
  • Confused men cry out to be understood.
  • Men of truth cry out for justice.
  • Broken men cry out for forgiveness.
  • Humble men cry out in compassion.
  • Married men cry deeply for their brides.
  • Widowed men cry over lost love.
          There is a future for weeping men in Buffalo. There is a future for the young men in Buffalo who don't have a father. There is a future for guys who want to stop shooting other guys in an attempt to fill the hole in their souls.

Jesus wept.
John 11:35


But Mary stood weeping outside the tomb, 

and as she wept she stooped to look into the tomb.
John 20:11

Fear not, for I am with you; 
be not dismayed, for I am your God; 
I will strengthen you, I will help you, 
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:10

He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, 
and death shall be no more, 
neither shall there be mourning, 
nor crying, nor pain anymore, 
for the former things have passed away.”
Revelation 21:4

          May the fathers of Buffalo cast their former things upon the cross of Jesus and become strengthened as men who become compassionate fathers to the next generation of fathers in Buffalo. Amen.

          Please share this Blog with someone you think might have a need to read it. If you would like to learn more about getting involved in helping young people experience a life-change, please leave your email on the comment section below. 

          Youth With A Purpose has a plan with a program already in action. We help young men become Christ-centered role models who mentor the next generation.

Thanks for your time. 
Go do something nice for somebody.
Jesus loves you and so do we. #JLYASDW


Bob Kuebler is the Founder & Director of Youth With A Purpose. Bob has spent the last 15 yrs. learning about pain and perseverance from inner city young people and their families. Healing starts with love and encompasses compassion and empathy. Our mission at YWAP is to inspire inner-city young people to develop as God's leaders who overcome the mindset of poverty and gang violence. Bob is the Author of four books, several magazine articles and blogs including The Bright Spot Report. He regularly shares with audiences about how God is redeeming our cities through young people.



Bob can be reached at 716-830-8240
or ywapbuffalo@yahoo.com.
www.youthwithapurpose.org

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

IS IT I LORD?

"In the same way death spread to all men because all sinned."

Is it I Lord?

I can't imagine enslaving a man,
because his skin is black or tan.
I can't imagine letting a baby die
before he's had a chance to cry.
I can't imagine people inhaling poison gas,
Hatred swiftly killing whole families en masse.
I can't imagine selling innocent children for sex.
I can't imagine a knife slicing people's necks.
I can't imagine yelling crucify,
and condemning Jesus to die.
I can't imagine just standing by.
What is the opposite of the word deny?.

IS IT I LORD?

Have my thoughts, words or my actions ever denied Love?
Have I ever stood by while justice, mercy and truth were denied?
I may only be a sojourner in this world, but I can't be a denier. I'm responsible, I'm accountable - to me belong the guilt and shame. No longer can I ask; "IS IT I LORD?" I know the Truth and the Truth has set me free. My eternal fate is sealed, indelibly etched in the heart of God. I've been made in the image and likeness of God. He sent His son to take on the guilt of all mankind. Should I be anything less as a believer in Christ?

Thanks for your time. Go do something nice for somebody.
Jesus loves you and so do we.

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“‘Master, you are our God, for you delivered your people from the land of Egypt in a show of power—people are still talking about it! 
We confess that we have sinned, that we have lived bad lives. 
Following the lines of what you have always done in setting things right, setting people right, please stop being so angry with Jerusalem, your very own city, your holy mountain. 
We know it’s our fault that this has happened, all because of our sins and our parents’ sins, and now we’re an embarrassment to everyone around us. 
We’re a blot on the neighborhood. 
So listen, God, to this determined prayer of your servant. 
Have mercy on your ruined Sanctuary. 
Act out of who you are, not out of what we are.

“‘Turn your ears our way, God, and listen. 
Open your eyes and take a long look at our ruined city, this city named after you. We know that we don’t deserve a hearing from you. 
Our appeal is to your compassion. 
This prayer is our last and only hope:

“‘Master, listen to us!
Master, forgive us!
Master, look at us and do something!
Master, don’t put us off!
Your city and your people are named after you:
You have a stake in us!’

Daniel 9:15-19 The Message

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Tuesday, February 7, 2017, 2:06 AM
Chandler, Arizona, USA

Friday, January 27, 2017

I FAILED GOD'S FOUR QUESTION TEST

   
 
          The test was short - only four questions. It was man and woman's first test; and they failed. They needed to answer correctly on three questions to get a passing grade. They bombed all four questions and then God told them to get out of paradise.
          In my life I've failed that "Four Question Test" innumerable times. Take a look at the Test and then I'll tell you about my failures.
  1. “Where are you?”
  2. “Who told you that you were naked?"
  3. "Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?”
  4. “What is this you have done?”*
          As a boy and then as a young man, several things happened to me that caused me to walk away from God. The details aren't necessary and the events happened before the age of maturity. Lack of maturity may be a lame excuse and I don't blame anyone but myself for my failures during God's tests. Still, as a youngster I walked away from any type of organized religion because of my experiences. 
          I was like a tree with my roots in the world. Even though my branches could feel the cool breeze of God asking "Where are you Bob?" I ignored Him. My conscience felt guilty, I knew I was naked and devoid of God's covering because of my separation from Him. That separation is sin.
          Instead of reaching for the sun, the tree of my life began receding into a sinkhole of self-righteous indignation. When I had reached my lowest point of emptiness and loneliness, God asked me His fourth question; "What is this you have done?"
          Last year I used a Bible Reading Plan that covered the Bible in 90 days. I noticed the rapidity and regularity of man's falling away from God. I also noticed that my first few decades of life mirrored that same destructive cycle. Staying in the Word helps me immensely, but I still get asked those same four questions from time to time.

Thanks for your time. Go do something nice for somebody.
Jesus loves you and so do we.

* The Four Question Test is taken from Genesis 3:9-13. New King James Version
   

Sunday, December 18, 2016

WHEN SOMEONE DIES TOO SOON


      "It is finished" aren't words we usually use to describe the death of someone we love.
"It is unfinished" would be more accurate. The suddenlies of unexpected death break our hearts in the blink of an eye. Nobody is ready for the unexpected. We're left screaming from somewhere deep inside: "Wait! This can't be happening! We aren't finished with life yet!" Instead of feeling like something has been finished, we're left with the taste of bitter wine.

     "It is finished." Those words seem fine for Jesus, but they don't seem to provide any understanding for the rest of us. Maybe they are words for a yet appointed time, but that's of little comfort in this moment. Someday, most likely in heaven, all things that worked together for good will be understood. Until then there is only hope in the future.

     Some people carry a greater brokenness than others. They come from a lineage of brokenness. That's a Christ-like legacy. The greater the brokenness, the greater the potential for a greater capacity to love. The greatest leaders in God's kingdom are those who have suffered the most. They have learned to love mercy, treat others with compassion and walk humbly.

     "It is finished" are words of wisdom that provide understanding for the last who will become first. Enduring pain is the perseverance root that grows into compassion. Your pain is a seed that will take several painful seasons to germinate. I'm asking Jesus right now to kneel before you as He holds your hearts in His hands. I pray that he whispers to your hearts, "I'm holding you and I won't let you sink any deeper. My love is sufficient for you. Someday you'll understand, but for now, just believe that I feel all your pain and you are not alone."

     "It is finished." I don't believe those are the words that Jesus would have preferred for His "end of life" script. The day before His death, He asked God to take away the cup of suffering, but then He added, "Not my will, but Your will be done." There are many times in life that we would gladly take away the cup of suffering from someone we love or even a stranger. God doesn't work that way, He gives a crown of beauty for ashes. He let's the sun set before He allows the sun to rise.

     I'm writing these words in the evening of a day on which someone I loved has had their life finished. Dr. Mike Pelechaty is resting in the everlasting arms of God tonight. Mike was a man of God, husband, father, Pastor, friend, mentor, disciple, and provider to folks in need. He was a former Board Member at Youth With A Purpose Inc. Mike brought people together and talked about God. He challenged them and provoked them into actively seeking more of God.

     It might be appropriate to say,
 "The world is a lesser place because Mike Pelechaty has left it." 
It would be better to say,
"The world is a better place because of the legacy that Mike Pelechaty has left it." 
We love you Mike. I pray that somebody in heaven will pass along this message to you:
"Jesus loves you and so do we."
Bob & Linda Kuebler

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“His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you were faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.”
Matthew 25:21

“Those who are wise shall shine like the brightness of the firmament, and those who turn many to righteousness like the stars forever and ever.”
Daniel 12:3

“Beloved, now we are children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.”
1 John 3:2

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Thanks for your time. Please pray for Mike's wife, family and friends.
Jesus loves you and so do we.
Sunday, December 18, 2016, 8:56 PM
Buffalo, NY, USA

Sunday, November 20, 2016

Resentment is an Investment in Contentment



These are my Sermon Notes for 11-20-16.

Last Days Fellowship - Buffalo, NY, USA

Sunday, November 20, 2016, 11:00 Am

"Resentment is an Investment in Contentment"


 Pastor Bob Kuebler

Focus Text for Today: 1 Samuel 1:6-18

6 And her adversary also provoked her sore, for to make her fret, because the Lord had shut up her womb.
7 And as he did so year by year, when she went up to the house of the Lord, so she provoked her; therefore she wept, and did not eat.
8 Then said Elkanah her husband to her, Hannah, why weepest thou? and why eatest thou not? and why is thy heart grieved? am not I better to thee than ten sons?
9 So Hannah rose up after they had eaten in Shiloh, and after they had drunk. Now Eli the priest sat upon a seat by a post of the temple of the Lord.
10 And she was in bitterness of soul, and prayed unto the Lord, and wept sore.
11 And she vowed a vow, and said, O Lord of hosts, if thou wilt indeed look on the affliction of thine handmaid, and remember me, and not forget thine handmaid, but wilt give unto thine handmaid a man child, then I will give him unto the Lord all the days of his life, and there shall no razor come upon his head.
12 And it came to pass, as she continued praying before the Lord, that Eli marked her mouth.
13 Now Hannah, she spake in her heart; only her lips moved, but her voice was not heard: therefore Eli thought she had been drunken.
14 And Eli said unto her, How long wilt thou be drunken? put away thy wine from thee.
15 And Hannah answered and said, No, my lord, I am a woman of a sorrowful spirit: I have drunk neither wine nor strong drink, but have poured out my soul before the Lord.
16 Count not thine handmaid for a daughter of Belial: for out of the abundance of my complaint and grief have I spoken hitherto.
17 Then Eli answered and said, Go in peace: and the God of Israel grant thee thy petition that thou hast asked of him.
18 And she said, Let thine handmaid find grace in thy sight. So the woman went her way, and did eat, and her countenance was no more sad." (Bob's Note: God is mentioned nine times in 13 verses.)

Short History of the Book of Samuel

Time Period in History: approximately between 931 B.C. - 721 B.C.
Author: Samuel the Prophet is mentioned as a possible author although he dies in the 25th Chapter. Several other Prophets are mentioned as authors. The exact author is not known. The book was written to provide instruction to the kings. Trust in God and everything will be cool. Trust in man and everything will be destroyed.
Meaning of Samuel: From the Hebrew name שְׁמוּאֵל (Shemu'el) which could mean either "name of God" or "God has heard". As told in the Books of Samuel in the Old Testament, Samuel was the last of the ruling judges. He led the Israelites during a period of domination by the Philistines, who were ultimately defeated in battle at Mizpah. Later he anointed Saul to be the first king of Israel, and even later anointed his successor David.
What Is Resentment?
The KJV translates Strong's H3708 Hebrew word - ka`ac. in the following manner: grief (7x), provocation (4x), wrath (4x), sorrow (3x), anger (2x), angry (1x), indignation (1x), provoking (1x), sore (1x), spite (1x).
Outline of Biblical Usage: anger, vexation, provocation, grief, vexation of men; of God, vexation, grief, frustration
Mirriam-Webster Dictionary Full Definition of resentment:  a feeling of indignant displeasure or persistent ill will at something regarded as a wrong, insult, or injury.
 
1 Samuel 1:16
NKJV "for out of the abundance of my complaint and grief I have spoken until now."
AMP "Do not regard your maidservant as a wicked and worthless woman, for I have spoken until now out of my great concern and [bitter] provocation."
MSG "Don’t for a minute think I’m a bad woman. It’s because I’m so desperately unhappy and in such pain that I’ve stayed here so long."
NLT "Don’t think I am a wicked woman! For I have been praying out of great anguish and sorrow.”
Resentment in The New Living Translation
Job 5:2 Surely resentment destroys the fool, and jealousy kills the simple.
Job 36:13 For the godless are full of resentment. Even when he punishes them, they refuse to cry out to him for help.
Proverbs 27:3 A stone is heavy and sand is weighty, but the resentment caused by a fool is even heavier.

Key Learning Points for Removing Resentment

  •  Hannah did not return resentment for resentment when Eli admonished her for being drunk.
  • When faced with resentment, take your bitterness of soul to the mercy-seat of God in prayer.
  • Bitterness in your heart will eventually leak out of your mouth.
  • Love Potion Number 9 will remove bitterness.
    1. Eat the Bread of Life - EVERYDAY! (Matthew 6:11)
    2. Do not go to sleep with anger on your mind. (Ephesians 4:26-27)
    3. Grievance releasing is the best gift giving. (Matthew 5:23-24)
    4. Mind renewal removes resentment by releasing the past. (Romans 12:2)
    5. Forgiveness moves with foresight, resentment remains stuck in hindsight. (Philippians 3:13)
    6. Focus on the Father. (Colossians 3:1)
    7. Get busy, do something for God. (James 1:22)
    8. Be good in the face of bad. (Romans 12:21)
    9. Be thankful for what you have - resentment makes you think about what you lost. (Hebrews 12:28-29)

Summary & Application

            Hannah's resentment was birthed in a womb closed by God. Out of the womb of Hannah's resentment a prophet was born.  A barren woman viewed as worthless and of minimal importance was used by God immeasurably. Hannah's labor gave birth to a baby named "God has heard." Samuel became the last Judge of Israel and a Prophet who would anoint the first King in the lineage of Christ. It's almost as if God is the great conductor of tragic symphony that becomes a Hallelujah Love Story! 
          Do you feel worthless? Do you have an abundance of complaints that are causing you to harbor resentment? Turn to God, enter His presence, utter your heart-cry and make your vows to Him. Will you return to Him what He has birthed in you? Are you the Prophet that has been birthed in a womb of resentment? Samuel himself had resentment when the people clamored for a King, but he prayed to God. His answer from God was something like this: "Don't be resentful Samuel. They haven't rejected you, but they have rejected Me." 
          If there is bitterness in your soul, it's time to pray and give birth to prophecy. If you harbor resentment, it's time to seek God and ask whom you shall anoint into the kingdom of God. Bitterness has only two results: 1. A bitter end. Or 2. A better hope for a new beginning.

"For I know the plans and thoughts that I have for you,’ says the Lord,
‘plans for peace and well-being and not for disaster
to give you a future and a hope.
Jeremiah 29:11Amplified Bible (AMP)